The right place

by Rapha Abreu·June 09, 2026·3 min read

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Throughout life, we are constantly called to make choices. Some seem obvious, attractive, and full of opportunities. Others require faith, patience, and trust in God. The problem is that not everything that looks good to our eyes is truly what is best for our future. The Bible shows us this through the story of Abraham and Lot, a narrative that remains extremely relevant for everyone who desires to live according to God’s will.

Appearances can be deceiving

“Lot looked around and saw that the whole plain of the Jordan toward Zoar was well watered, like the garden of the Lord, like the land of Egypt. (This was before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah.)”
Genesis 13:10

There came a time when Abraham’s and Lot’s flocks had grown so much that the land could no longer support them together. To avoid conflict, Abraham proposed that they separate and gave Lot the opportunity to choose first where he would go.

Lot saw a place that, from a human perspective, seemed like the perfect choice. The plain was fertile, abundant, and promising. Everything pointed to prosperity. But Lot evaluated only what he could see. He observed the appearance of the land but ignored the spiritual condition of the environment he was choosing. We often do the same. We make decisions based solely on financial opportunities, status, comfort, or immediate advantages without considering the spiritual impact those choices may have on our lives.

Not every beautiful path leads to the right destination. There are doors that seem like answers from God but can actually pull us away from what He desires to build within us. That is why spiritual discernment is more important than outward appearances. The enemy tries to distract us.

The environment influences the destination

“Now the people of Sodom were wicked and were sinning greatly against the Lord.”
Genesis 13:13

Lot’s decision did not affect only that specific moment. Gradually, he moved closer and closer to Sodom, a city marked by corruption and distance from God. The environment around him began to influence his life, his family, and his choices.

There is a spiritual truth that we often ignore: environments shape people. The places we frequent, the voices we listen to, and the values we absorb daily have a direct impact on who we become. None of us is completely immune to the influence of our surroundings.

Therefore, before choosing where to live, work, build relationships, or invest your time, it is worth asking: does this place draw me closer to God or farther away from Him? The best opportunity is not always the one that offers the greatest immediate advantages. Sometimes, the greatest blessing is found in the environment where our faith can grow, flourish, and remain healthy.

Leave, walk, and enter

“Look around from where you are, to the north and south, to the east and west. All the land that you see I will give to you and your offspring forever.”
Genesis 13:14–15

While Lot chose based on appearances, Abraham remained confident in God’s direction. And it was precisely after their separation that the Lord reaffirmed His promises over Abraham’s life.

There are moments when God calls us to leave certain places, seasons, or environments. Remaining where there is no longer a purpose can delay what the Lord desires to do. At other times, He invites us to walk into something new, even when we cannot yet see all the details of the journey.

Spiritual maturity includes recognizing when it is time to leave, when it is time to walk, and when it is time to enter. Not every change will be comfortable, but many of them will be necessary. When we follow God’s direction instead of relying solely on our own perceptions, we discover that His plans are far greater than what our eyes can see. The environment we choose today can deeply influence the future we will build tomorrow. Therefore, before choosing what seems better, choose what brings you closer to God.