There is victory in forgiveness

by Rapha Abreu·July 29, 2025·3 min read

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It’s easy to admire great public feats, like David’s victory over Goliath, which earned him applause and recognition. But there are silent battles that reveal a heart truly shaped by God. Forgiving someone who has hurt us, as David did with Saul, doesn’t generate fame—but it shows spiritual maturity and obedience to the Lord. While killing giants impresses people, forgiving enemies brings joy to the heart of God.

Hidden Power

“Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.’”
Matthew 18:21–22

Forgiving is not a sign of weakness but of spiritual strength. Jesus taught that forgiveness must be constant and necessary—not as a favor to others, but as healing for ourselves. When David had the chance to take Saul’s life and chose to spare him, he didn’t act out of fear but out of reverence for God. He knew vengeance wasn’t his responsibility and that it wasn’t God’s plan for him.

Killing Goliath was a bold act seen by all, vital to David’s journey, and ordained by God. But forgiving Saul was a quiet decision made before the Lord. This kind of victory doesn’t produce songs or celebrations, but it bears eternal fruit. David didn’t let resentment rule, even while being wronged and hunted.

Forgiveness is choosing freedom over being right. It’s trusting that God is the righteous judge. When we allow forgiveness to lead us, we are healed within and freed from the prison of bitterness. David overcame Saul with the sword of mercy—and that reveals the greatness of his heart.

Silent Celebration

“The blessing of the Lord brings wealth, without painful toil for it.”
Proverbs 10:22

The applause of this world is fleeting, but God’s approval is eternal. Many remember David as the young man who killed the giant, but heaven smiled when he forgave Saul. God doesn’t just want to use us for great external deeds—He wants to shape us inwardly in love, humility, and grace.

Forgiveness shows we trust God more than our own sense of justice. The Lord cares more about our character than our reputation. When David spared Saul, he revealed that he understood this truth. He didn’t act to protect his image but to honor God’s appointed authority.

To celebrate forgiveness is to understand that there is glory in the silence. While people focus on the hands that conquer, God sees the broken and merciful heart—because it reflects Jesus. May our greatest victory be in becoming more like Christ, who, even on the cross, wounded and humiliated, said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34)

Spiritual Growth

“Anyone you forgive, I also forgive. And what I have forgiven—if there was anything to forgive—I have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake.”
2 Corinthians 2:10

Forgiveness is a tool of spiritual maturity. David grew when he forgave. He went from being merely a brave warrior to becoming a man after God’s own heart. This kind of growth doesn’t happen on stages but in secret—in the quiet decisions not to repay evil with evil.

When we forgive, we make room for God to move in our story. David understood that he didn’t need Saul’s destruction to ascend to the throne. He waited on the Lord, trusting that God’s timing was better than any human strategy. That is true growth: to trust and obey even when pain calls us to vengeance.

If we want to fully live out God’s purpose for us, we must learn to forgive. Not just when it’s easy or convenient—but also when it’s silent, lonely, and unnoticed by the world. Because it is in those moments that God writes the greatest victories in our story.