Circumstantial joy

“You make known to me the path of life; in Your presence there is fullness of joy; at Your right hand are pleasures forevermore.”

Psalm 16:11

We live in a world that associates joy with places, people, positions, and achievements.

We believe we will only be happy when something changes: a relationship, an environment, a job title, or a season of life. But this way of thinking carries a silent trap. If joy comes from external sources, it will always be unstable.

When we expect others to make us happy, we are asking of them something they may not even possess. We demand that people, churches, jobs, and situations supply a need they were never meant to fill. This expectation generates frustration, abandonment, and a cycle of empty new beginnings.

Scripture confronts us with a deeper truth: true joy does not arise from circumstances, but from the presence of God. If we do not believe this, we fail to access what has already been offered to us.

The temptation to give up

“For we live by faith, not by sight.”

2 Corinthians 5:7

We tend to give up when something stops making emotional sense. This is one of the greatest temptations of our time. When joy seems to fade, when enthusiasm is no longer the same, we assume that something is wrong and we retreat. But feelings are not masters. They fluctuate, oscillate, and cannot sustain eternal decisions.

Faith is not anchored in what we feel, but in what God has already spoken since the foundation of the world. If He has not instructed you to give up, then giving up is not a legitimate option, even when the path is difficult.

Many times, God does not call us to leave, but to remain—because remaining is also an act of faith. Staying when it is uncomfortable reveals spiritual maturity. Constancy is also a form of obedience and trust.

From victory

“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us”.

Romans 8:37

At certain moments in the process, we feel as though we have nothing left to give. Weariness sets in, strength seems depleted, and the struggle intensifies. We feel attacked by the world.

But often, this spiritual attack does not mean something is lacking within us—it means there is something powerful inside us that disturbs and intimidates what stands against us. What you need is to seek God’s presence even more, to grow spiritually, mature in other areas of life, and become someone who carries authority in the Word and the presence of God.

What God has placed within you threatens the enemy.

We do not fight to obtain a future victory; we fight from a victory already established in Christ. The cross was not a draw—it was a triumph.

Therefore, do not abandon your calling or the dreams God planted within you. Seek His voice and follow the path He leads you on. Let go of what is not part of His plans, and work with even greater dedication in everything He has poured into your life.

We are children, and children walk sustained by promise, not by feelings. The joy that comes from God does not depend on what changes; it remains because He remains.